Blonk -

Sorry to hear! Its rarely smooth sailing!

BUT Don't throw the towel in!

You worked, you contributed/provided = YOUR ENTITLED!!

No agreement is set in concrete or safe unless its in writing.. and stamped by the courts.

see a Solicitor - get out of court agreements on property and maintenance and arrangements for the baby. An indemnity is a must have over the car. Handing over and walking away now, leaves the door open for re-visits on your finances in the future.

Chin up!

Sorry to hear of your sad problem/s mate.

Try to part on a even and equitable footing as possible, but cover that butt mate.

And grab the computer as well so you can let the bogans on this forum at least cheer you up.

Hang tough dude!

sorry to hear blonk, hope the future is better for you

Edited January 29, 200521 yr by harvestgreenxr

Good luck.

Never easy that's for sure

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

What he said ^^

As Eddie Murphy said, "HALF!!, I'll take half his sheet"...

but seriously, you earnt that money, you deserve it!

Good luck mate and keep looking to the future

Dave.

Edited January 29, 200521 yr by fordboy1981

Mate go for half at least, it is unfair when just because she is a woman she is entitled to income that you have earned.One day the laws will be made to protect both parties and split proceed fairly.You have an obligation to your child but that's it.Dont let her destroy you.What you get now will help you in the future to meet your commitments.

Best of luck

pete.

Yeppers... Without takin the attention off wayno, for scotto its over........

I will send all our belongings back to coffs and start afresh..... I get to keep the T but sometimes even a T doesnt make it alright...

Baby 10months -

Bya mihuney.......................

I am over being the suger daddy to an ungrateful mother.....

7 years of feeling like a half a person..................

IF I seemed strange.. Well this might be why.........

Breakin up is hard to do........... I will package everything we own, including the house and give her the lot..... Everything..!!!! I keep the T with 40,000 owing and the 10K credit card............. And good buye mihuney goodbye..........

It's nice having stuff but I am not prepared to pay the mental price for blackmail....

Whinge over

CYA guys.......................................................

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Mate, don't ever forget the fact that your child will ALWAYS need a father. Don't ever let that go......NEVER.

keep it friendly

keep yourself healthy

keep being a father

keep an open mind

and hang in there ... its tough but its not forever

God luck Scott with that bumpy road ahead, I'm sure the reason you aren't talking about getting as much as possible is over your love for your child & I agree that that seems the right thing to do, just make sure your shovel is big enough to dig your way back out of the hole you'll be in.

Scotty

All I can say is get a good lawyer and get what your entitled to. I don't know what your wife is like but just cause you have given her everything doesnt mean she will leave it at that. Get what your entitled too!!! Don't give her the lot.