phantomchic Just because it is, doesn't mean it should be..... Legacy Donating Member 14,092 Member For: 22y 18d Gender: Female Location: Noosa QLD Posted 29/01/05 02:35 AM Posted 29/01/05 02:35 AM Blonk - Sorry to hear! Its rarely smooth sailing! BUT Don't throw the towel in!You worked, you contributed/provided = YOUR ENTITLED!!No agreement is set in concrete or safe unless its in writing.. and stamped by the courts.see a Solicitor - get out of court agreements on property and maintenance and arrangements for the baby. An indemnity is a must have over the car. Handing over and walking away now, leaves the door open for re-visits on your finances in the future.Chin up!
Redhawk ....Time to lay this fairytale aside...... Legacy Donating Member 2,657 Member For: 23y 6m 20d Gender: Male Location: In the Ferry on the River Styx, not getting out just yet! Posted 29/01/05 05:25 AM Posted 29/01/05 05:25 AM Sorry to hear of your sad problem/s mate.Try to part on a even and equitable footing as possible, but cover that butt mate.And grab the computer as well so you can let the bogans on this forum at least cheer you up. Hang tough dude!
wicksy still kicking around Member 1,789 Member For: 23y 6m 8d Gender: Male Location: Mackay Posted 29/01/05 06:11 AM Posted 29/01/05 06:11 AM (edited) sorry to hear blonk, hope the future is better for you Edited 29/01/05 06:11 AM by harvestgreenxr
Blown BA In Your Face Member 6,195 Member For: 23y 6m 21d Gender: Male Location: Peninsula Posted 29/01/05 06:55 AM Posted 29/01/05 06:55 AM Good luck. Never easy that's for sure<{POST_SNAPBACK}>What he said ^^
fordboy1981 Legacy Donating Member 2,076 Member For: 23y 8m 12d Gender: Male Location: Melbourne, Vic Posted 29/01/05 07:28 AM Posted 29/01/05 07:28 AM (edited) As Eddie Murphy said, "HALF!!, I'll take half his sheet"...but seriously, you earnt that money, you deserve it!Good luck mate and keep looking to the future Dave. Edited 29/01/05 07:29 AM by fordboy1981
stang Legacy Donating Member 1,353 Member For: 22y 8m 9d Location: Melbourne Posted 29/01/05 01:12 PM Posted 29/01/05 01:12 PM Mate go for half at least, it is unfair when just because she is a woman she is entitled to income that you have earned.One day the laws will be made to protect both parties and split proceed fairly.You have an obligation to your child but that's it.Dont let her destroy you.What you get now will help you in the future to meet your commitments.Best of luckpete.
Marcos Member 289 Member For: 22y 10m 19d Location: Central Coast NSW Posted 29/01/05 04:44 PM Posted 29/01/05 04:44 PM Yeppers... Without takin the attention off wayno, for scotto its over........I will send all our belongings back to coffs and start afresh..... I get to keep the T but sometimes even a T doesnt make it alright...Baby 10months - Bya mihuney.......................I am over being the suger daddy to an ungrateful mother.....7 years of feeling like a half a person..................IF I seemed strange.. Well this might be why.........Breakin up is hard to do........... I will package everything we own, including the house and give her the lot..... Everything..!!!! I keep the T with 40,000 owing and the 10K credit card............. And good buye mihuney goodbye..........It's nice having stuff but I am not prepared to pay the mental price for blackmail....Whinge over CYA guys.......................................................<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Mate, don't ever forget the fact that your child will ALWAYS need a father. Don't ever let that go......NEVER.
Cobra potty trained Legacy Donating Member 1,938 Member For: 23y 5m 4d Gender: Male Posted 29/01/05 11:07 PM Posted 29/01/05 11:07 PM keep it friendlykeep yourself healthykeep being a fatherkeep an open mindand hang in there ... its tough but its not forever
ktford FORD FORD FORD Legacy Donating Member 9,390 Member For: 23y 6m 13d Gender: Male Location: Victoria Point In Brissy's eastern side Posted 29/01/05 11:36 PM Posted 29/01/05 11:36 PM God luck Scott with that bumpy road ahead, I'm sure the reason you aren't talking about getting as much as possible is over your love for your child & I agree that that seems the right thing to do, just make sure your shovel is big enough to dig your way back out of the hole you'll be in.Scotty
OwnaXR6T Member 1,519 Member For: 23y 10m 1d Location: Sydney Australia Posted 30/01/05 10:37 PM Posted 30/01/05 10:37 PM All I can say is get a good lawyer and get what your entitled to. I don't know what your wife is like but just cause you have given her everything doesnt mean she will leave it at that. Get what your entitled too!!! Don't give her the lot.
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