Yeh agreed I work in the Mental Health industry and you really can not understand sometimes how it can get so bad so fast for them I have had 2 friends close to me end there lives and with work many more. For those interested there is a program called assist training they do Suicide first aid, I know it sounds strange but it will give you the insight need to help someone in that serious stage of depression and feeling suicidal also what to look for in the person feeling that way it is a really good course takes 2 days cost about $200 dollars well worth it. I am in East Gippsland Victoria and the people that offer the training are Gippslakes Community Health 03 51520052, (John Island) is the guys name I hope this many help same of you in the same boat at least you will know what to look for in friends and family members who are feeling suicidal and how best to assist them.