go with the feasts, its what Christmas should be about, getting together with family and friends, not worrying about what to get people... cold meats/snacks vs cooked feast with vegies etc
WHY IS IT THAT when I go out, if I have a shave and put some aftershave on, I'm accused of going out to pick up women, get when women go to work even they spend more time getting ready, doing hair, makeup etc...but that is ok?! damn double standards