^this Jet and I are still like best mates. Yeah we disagree sometimes, but we never go to sleep angry or without telling each other we love each other and to be fair it doesn’t happen often. Having similar interests helps. We tune cars together, we drink at the pub together, we laugh at the same shows, we play golf, we go for walks, we have an abundance of date nights, we enjoy most of the same stuff. It’s like hanging with my bestie most of the time. We’ve had a lot of really hard times (through no fault of our own) and I think it’s made us stronger than ever. We still laugh like we just met and we still know how to make each other crack up, even at 2am when we’re exhausted from waking up with kids, we will still lose our sh*t laughing. He kisses me on the forehead and tells me everything will be ok when I’m lost, and he tells me every day that he loves me and he thinks I’m beautiful. He orders me flowers for no reason, even though I don’t expect them and I still make him sandwiches and a cuppa and take them down to the shed when he’s working. I think if u truly love each other then you will always just care enough to do those little things. Like tonight I’m exhausted after a 12 hour day on site, still project managing our builds on the side, finding somewhere to live and renovating another house, and he has made us dinner and got me an icy water as soon as I walked in the door and some clean towels so I could jump straight in the shower. I got a catch.... I’m very lucky. We’re coming up for our 10 years soon and I can’t believe how fast the times gone And I still find myself trying to ditch other things just to spend time with him.... we actually want to be around each other as much as possible. Ps... also having secs a lot helps too [emoji6] sorry freaky